Action

ACTION EVENTS

Don't waste your time whinging to other people and politicians that you don't like Family Law. Do some of the many positive initiatives that can make a difference such as listed below:

DONATE TO ERASING FAMILY

Donate to this excellent group who are making the movie Erasing Family.

http://erasingfamily.org

GET PA INCLUDED IN INQUESTS

The best way we can get action by decision makers on Parental Alienation is for people to realise that Parental Alienation kills children. Find any person closely connected to a tragic event such as an Alienating Parent alleged to have murdered their children. Do what you can to ensure that lawyers and mental health professionals knowledgeable about Parental Alienation are used at the hearing. It is suggested that the following might be worth investigating:

-Murray River Tragedy

https://thewest.com.au/news/australia/murray-river-tragedy-dad-says-he-was-alienated-from-his-kids-ng-b88408006z

http://www.news.com.au/national/nsw-act/news/grieving-grandparents-warned-authorities-before-murray-river-tragedy/news-story/2db9ed1983563a2a9c843286fb244d76


GET A BEACON ABOUT PA IN EVERY HOME

http://www.divorcepizza.com

Something is needed in every home to remind people of parental alienation and warn everyone especially kids. The divorcepizza fridge magnets are the only product on the market with an important and concise message that can be placed at child height on a fridge.

Have a Project Compassion or similar box to collect charity from PA events in every house: https://sites.google.com/site/saveachildssoul/

Picture of Project Compassion Box

GET YOUR OWN HOUSE IN ORDER FIRST

Draw up your own family tree to see where there is PA. Rather than complain to your ex-inlaws that your former spouse is Alienating your children from you, get your Alienating sister or brother to repent their ways first.

TALK TO YOUR/YOUR ALIENATORS FAMILY

Talk to your own family about PA and show them high impact videos such as 'Parental Alienation Hurts' and 'Aimee's Christmas 2014 Message'. Give them Divorcepizza magnets.

Seek out a sibling or other family member of your Alienator's most likely to be receptive about PA. Show them the video 'Aimee's Christmas 2104 Message' and Dr Sheehan at 6 minutes 45 seconds. Give them Divorcepizza magnets.

During any custody/legal dispute you likely would have lost contact with many of the friends and family of the Alienator. During this time there was likely a major Smear Campaign against you with a lot of distorted and false information. The huge number of people that have passed on these stories and the shear volume of these stories over a long period of time makes them for all practical purposes impossible to rebut. The fact that all of them are either gross distortions of the truth or pure falsehoods makes no difference.

Best thing that you can do is try and reconnect with some of these people that you were close to before and rebuild friendships. Avoid saying anything negative about the Alienator other than it was wrong for your children to have been cut off from a parent and that it is in your children's best interests to reconnect with their absent parent.

SEEK OUT GOVERNMENT INQUIRIES INTO FAMILY VIOLENCE

Parental Alienation is a distinctive form of Psychological child abuse and Family Violence as defined by legislation in Australia and other countries as well as the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of the US Psychiatric Association.

Do what you can, to seek out Government Inquiries into Family Violence and make your submissions with cases you know about where this form of Domestic Violence has occurred such as:

FamCA1251 [2009]

FamCA501 [2012]

-your own case or those of Family & Friends.

Refer also to cases where symptoms of Parental Alienation existed and the Alienating parent later committed physical violence against a child like in the Glendinning double child homicide and parent suicide case. The main relevant factor here was that not only were mental health professionals not only not given information known to the Police and Child welfare authorities, they were not even given access to all the information in the Family Court file. If we want the best assessments done where there is a risk of Parental Alienation and Family Violence, it is crucial that mental health professionals involved are given ALL the information that the State has.

GET PARENTAL ALIENATION BROCHURES & LINKS TO

FAMILY COUNSELLING CENTRES & FAMILY LAWYERS & DOCTORS SURGERIES & FAMILY COURTS

http://www.paawareness.com/brochures.asp

http://www.divorcepizza.com

PREACH ABOUT PARENTAL ALIENATION TO CHURCHES

Most of these are very interested in the subject and would love someone to give talks for worshippers and run education programs.

See: https://sites.google.com/site/saveachildssoul/

CHILD EDUCATION

Support local Psychologists to have PA included in the school curriculum.

For your information a UK Psychologist lobbying to have PA included in the school curriculum: http://familypsychologysolutions.org/dr-sue-whitcombe/

LOBBY POLITICIANS

Lobby politicians with improvements that have the best chances of getting approved.

Seek parental alienation to be included in the definition of Family Violence and a mandatable offence to be reported. See:

https://www.flsenate.gov/Session/Bill/2017/01342/

Seek children to be cared for by other relatives while parental abuse allegations are investigated to avoid “coaching” by the abuser.

Once children are alienated this is definitely abuse however the public need to recognise that ‘grooming’ for PAS is also abuse and needs to be recognised as such.

Some Family Law matters are extremely expensive to the Taxpayer. See the long history of: http://www.austlii.edu.au/cgi-bin/sinodisp/au/cases/cth/FamCAFC/2010/182.html A system needs to be implemented to record the cost of all family law matters related to one family over time in terms of:

-The costs of all the different courts involved.

-Police costs

-Child welfare agency costs

-Legal Aid costs

-Centrelink

In order to assess cost effectiveness and analyse alternative policies.

Removal of Family Allowence for moderate and severe Alienators and give the money to needy children in Africa – similar to the Turnbull Government's – No Jab No Pay – No Jab No Play policy.

Alienated children spread a very toxic message to other children and ought not to be mixing with other children while they are contaminated.

GOVERNMENT FUNDING

Seek out funding opportunities from State, Federal and Local Government

-Family and Children's Services

-Health

-Mental Health

-Elder Abuse

-Attorney General

-Lotteries

-Local Government

CORPORATE SPONSORS

-Mining Companies with FIFO workers

-Counselling Organisations

-Doctors & Mental Health professionals

-Child care services

-Airlines (as this is the most common means of international kidnapping of a child)

INDIVIDUALS

PROFESSIONAL SUPPORT

Encourage Counsellors and Lawyers to form in groups of professionals who are concerned about PA.

Have Family Lawyers warn parents and relatives at their first point of contact about PA.

Have Counsellors warn parents at their first point of contact about PA.

Have Anti PA clauses as part of standard Parenting Plans.

Have Doctors/Pediatricians and Psychologists check for signs of PA for children of divorce who are brought to them with problems such as ADHD, bedwetting and other behaviour problems.

SURVIVORS

Seek out child survivors of Parental Alienation to get their support.


CHRISTMAS

Great information and program to help at Christmas time

http://www.ryanthomasspeaks.com/hme-2016

HELPING CHILDREN OF PARENTAL ALIENATION MISSING LOVE AT CHRISTMAS

Here is some artwork created by some PA concerned individuals. Modify it to suit your wishes.

Then print out in colour from your own printer a couple of copies and take to a popular church near to you. Then after the service has finished most Priests will greet the worshipers exiting the Church.

Once the Priest has greeted the last of the worshipers approach him and explain your concern about the spiritual and psychological well-being of children of divorce that have been cutoff from one parent by the other parent. Mention that you are doing this to help all children affected by this problem, not specifically your children although you are of course very concerned about your own children. Ask if the Priest could mention this problem when speaking to the congregation at each service over Christmas and put up a copy on the noticeboard.

You may wish to indicate to the Priest that you are willing to do voluntary work giving presentations (about the benefits of marriage to children and the evils of the civil system) to couples that are at early stages of marital difficulties as well as their families.

It is recommended to post this on a PA Facebook Group in your local state or area as soon as I can to:
1) let others know which churches you are covering and
2) motivate other Targeted Parents to get them to do the same.


This flyer purposely does not have a logo so the priests of the Churches can see this is being done by concerned individuals for no commercial purpose. Feel free to modify the brochure to your ideas. Please place this flyer and notes as soon as you can in every Facebook PA Group.
The reason churches are being targeted because: 1 they celebrate Christmas and 2 Church goers care more (most not all) about PA than the general community !
GO FOR IT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ACTION EVENTS - NOW

By checking this page from time to time you can see what Parental Alienation events are in progress and happening next.

FAMILY VIOLENCE AND THE COURT SYSTEM

It appears that submissions can still be made to this:

https://coagvawsummit.pmc.gov.au/family-law

PARLIAMENTARY INQUIRY INTO A BETTER FAMILY LAW SYSTEM TO SUPPORT AND PROTECT THOSE AFFECTED BY FAMILY VIOLENCE

Latest date for receival of submissions is 3 May 2017

http://www.aph.gov.au/FVLawReform

SYMPOSIUM

A Symposium will be held in 2018 TBA in Perth WA on affirmative action that can be taken against Parental Alienation in the Australian Family Court.

BALLOON CHALLLENGE

PAAA fully supports the Balloon Challenge by Voice4Kids:

Go to: https://www.facebook.com/voice4kidskarlalee/

Bringing awareness around "Parental Alienation"and how it is affecting our children around the globe.

START YOUR OWN BALLOON CHALLENGE TODAY!!!

To get involved watch the video below and then head to the V4K Face book Page https://www.facebook.com/voice4kidskarlalee/

https://youtu.be/Ary-9k39JPg

INTERNATIONAL PARENTAL ALIENATION AWARENESS DAY

25th of April 2019

MOTHERS DAY 12 May 2019

INTERNATIONAL DAY OF FAMILIES – UNITED NATIONS

15 May 2019

GLOBAL DAY OF PARENTS – UNITED NATIONS-

23 June 2019

FATHERS DAY Sept 2019

Details of events coming soon

HELPING CHILDREN OF PARENTAL ALIENATION MISSING LOVE AT CHRISTMAS

Here is some artwork created by some PA concerned individuals. Modify it to suit your wishes.

Then print out in colour from your own printer a couple of copies and take to a popular church near to you. Then after the service has finished most Priests will greet the worshipers exiting the Church.

Once the Priest has greeted the last of the worshipers approach him and explain your concern about the spiritual and psychological well-being of children of divorce that have been cutoff from one parent by the other parent. Mention that you are doing this to help all children affected by this problem, not specifically your children although you are of course very concerned about your own children. Ask if the Priest could mention this problem when speaking to the congregation at each service over Christmas and put up a copy on the noticeboard.

You may wish to indicate to the Priest that you are willing to do voluntary work giving presentations (about the benefits of marriage to children and the evils of the civil system) to couples that are at early stages of marital difficulties as well as their families.

It is recommended to post this on a PA Facebook Group in your local state or area as soon as I can to:

1) let others know which churches you are covering and:

2) motivate other Targeted Parents to get them to do the same

This flyer purposely does not have a logo so the priests of the Churches can see this is being done by concerned individuals for no commercial purpose.

Feel free to modify the brochure to your ideas.

Please place this flyer and notes as soon as you can in every Facebook PA Group.

The reason churches are being targeted because 1 they celebrate Christmas and 2 Church goers care more (most not all) about PA than the general community !


GO FOR IT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!